Support & Gudance for Moms of Addicts
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Moms of Addicts – You are NOT alone anymore!

Moms of Addicts  – you are NOT alone anymore!

You have probably come to the painful conclusion that you are powerless to save your son or daughter from their addiction Beast, but there is still hope!

You can recover; you can save yourself for the Codependent Enabler Beast that is destroying you. The best thing you can do NOW for everyone is to learn to stand up and fight for YOUR life – to lead the way.

You can demonstrate that it is possible to stand up, even in your darkest hours.

I am here to give support and guidance for moms of addicts and other family members who deal with addiction in their lives. As the mom of an addict, I know the road is very lonely and seems hopeless.

When I meet moms of addicts or other family members dealing with an addict in their lives, I immediately connect with them.  I often tell moms, “I wish we didn’t have to meet in this way,” but life has a way of connecting all of us through difficult experiences. So, I am grateful we can link arms and stand together.

When I was in the middle of my daughter Jamie’s addiction beast, right there with her, I felt so hopeless. My happiness became dependent on her actions, her health and safety, and her choices. You can stop the codependency and enabling and learn to live your life again!

If I had to rewrite my story, Jamie would be clean and sober, sharing her testimony of overcoming addiction. She would be sharing hope with other people and their families dealing with this addiction Beast. But this isn’t so. She was fatally shot in 2016 and it was exactly what I feared the most.

You can stop codependency and enabling and learn to live your life again!

I am going to be very honest — if I didn’t have the Nine Actions to Battle Your Beast that I created to deal with my ride on the  Roller Coaster From Hell with my Codependent Enabler Beast — I would likely be in bed all day, feeling sorry for myself. When I tell you that I use the Nine Actions myself, it’s an understatement. Without them, I might not have survived the Roller Coaster, or my daughter’s murder (which is still unsolved).

Created out of desperation over my daughter’s addiction, these nine incredible techniques for battling any Beast life throws at you, are effective.

EVERY DAY I use the Nine Actions for ANYTHING life throws my way. Created out of desperation over my daughter’s addiction, these nine incredible techniques for battling any Beast life throws at you, are effective. Women across the country and beyond are using these actions to take their lives back and shed the years of guilt, shame and fear. They are learning how to LIVE again, and LOVE again. You can do this too.

Read the books and join the Tribe!

I want to make working with me as simple as possible. The FIRST thing you should do, is read. These books are the foundation of everything I teach. Mental health practitioners are now learning about my message and they see how these Nine Actions can be highly effective. One of our Sisterhood members changed so much her therapist even commented on how incredible she was doing — and her story involves MANY addicts in her family over many years.

Start with this set. This is the foundation.

I highly recommend starting with reading Still Standing After All The Tears, then doing the workbook,
and lastly, the Misery You Don’t Get My Company book.

Next – Join the Sisterhood! We have you covered with 24/7 Support & Guidance.

I created the Still Standing Sisterhood because I KNOW what it takes to get up off of the mat and what it takes to keep standing over your Beast. This membership gives access to our online portal 24/7 with an incredible library of short videos and other tools to help you stand up and reclaim your life!

Our private members-only  Facebook group is a lively, fun group of incredible women – all battling and all determined to stand strong – TOGETHER.

Many women in the group have overcome tremendous personal challenges and are thriving – some are even leading informal study groups and writing books!

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Work one-on-one with Valerie Silveira

Valerie radiates love and truth. She has a genuine desire to help people change themselves and their lives for the better!! She has lessons and tools that she teaches to help each issue as it comes. Valerie is open and honest, and she tells it like it is! The knowledge she has and the tools she shares are truly life-changing!

After working with Valerie, you will learn how to love yourself and see the beautiful person you are inside because she will show you how to go back to before trials and struggles.  She has helped women learn why they do the things they do and why other people do what they do. She teaches how to deal with difficult people and difficult situations.

If you are looking for someone who can help you to make healthy changes or to help you through difficult times, Valerie is the one!  Her lessons will help you break free from expectations (your own and others)!

Yes, life can still be difficult, but any problems you encounter can be peacefully handled with the lessons and tools you will learn from Valerie!

~ Kalen Arreola

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